The crows play hide-and-seek with Nicole Steinke after her older kids head to school.

The crows play hide-and-seek with Nicole Steinke after her older kids head to school.

She feeds a family of the birds from her apartment balcony in Alexandria, Virginia, twice daily.

She feeds a family of the birds from her apartment balcony in Alexandria, Virginia, twice daily.

Once there’s no food left, they’ll look for her as she walks around her neighborhood.

Once there’s no food left, they’ll look for her as she walks around her neighborhood.

When one crow finds her, it will call to the others, and they’ll surround her.

When one crow finds her, it will call to the others, and they’ll surround her.

The crows have become minor TikTok celebrities thanks to CrowTok, a small but extremely active niche on the social video app that has exploded in popularity over the past two years.

CrowTok isn’t just about birds, though. It also often explores the relationships that corvids—a family of birds including crows, magpies, and ravens—develop with human beings.

They’re not the only intelligent birds around, but in general, corvids are smart in a way that resonates deeply with humans.

But how easy is it to befriend them? And what can it teach us about attention, and patience, in a world that often seems to have little of either?